Sunday, September 15, 2013

Difficult to Put to Words

How many times do we hear that an event is too difficult to put to words? I know I have heard it several times. Major events, like the birth of a child, are often described this way. I had spoken to a few people who had attended Let’s Truck’s Certified Master Contractor (CMC) Conference, and said the experience was difficult to put to words and I doubted it. How could a conference, especially a conference about trucking. Yet, here I sit, just two short days after the conference has ended finding it difficult to put the experience to words.
I knew to expect many of the same issues Kevin goes over on the show in greater detail. I had been told Larry Winget was a great speaker. I expected the negotiations portion to really push me to an uncomfortable zone. I was also told the networking with other drivers made the conference invaluable. I was not expected to really have the conference effect and challenge me in the ways it has.
We arrived in Kansas City on Thursday, and immediately ran into a few people I had been conversing, and sometimes arguing with on Facebook. By the end of the week, I hated to leave the conference. I knew we needed to get back to work, but I really felt like I really hadn’t learned all I could from all those around me. The networking was truly priceless. For those of us who listen to Kevin, we have come to know people like Jimmy the Junkman, and many had preconceived notions about him and there is no way he was like that in real life. Reality, Jimmy is a crazy smart, patient man who is willing to share his wealth of knowledge with anyone that takes the time sit with him. I cannot begin to thank him enough. Rico (or as I just called him SauvĂ©) not only shared his hard earned knowledge with all at the CMC, but he took time out to spend extra time with my husband. We spent a lot of time trying to teach Southern to a British Canadian, and he shared not only his business plan but his story which blew me away. Robert and his wife not only shared his knowledge, but his dedication to the industry shows in his willingness to take a younger driver under his wing and share his knowledge. There are so many more which taught me a lot, and modeled the mentoring I think is sorely needed in this industry. I was able to share a little of my knowledge and abilities with several others, but I really feel like I took so much more than I gave back.
Negotiations can be something many don’t want to attempt, and surely don’t want to learn more about, however George Gallamore made it really applicable to everyone’s life. He taught me more about me, and really made me realize why I do some of the things I do. Not only do I understand myself better, I understand my husband and much of my family a little better, so I feel his tools and information were something I needed, no matter how I dreaded it. Learning other people and learning to recognize the clues as to what type of person they are will help us in the end. While I don’t think his knowledge will help us make a decision on buying a new dishwasher, at least he now has a new couple to use as an example.
Goal setting is something I learned about while I was in the business world, but sometimes I forget those skills and don’t apply them in this business. Being reminded the steps for goal setting, and really analyzing the motives behind the goals was something I really felt we needed. I really would like to write a book, but I also know that goal is rather selfish. My husband and I have realized we really need to make a decision on our future. We need to decide on a plan that will work for us, write out goals, and make a plan to get us where we would like to be. We don’t have much time, but it is definitely needed.
Larry Winget said several things that were funny and yet made you think. One think that just made you think was, “Nothing is neutral.” In life, every decision we make either moves us towards our goals or away from them. No decision we make has no bearing on our lives. He made so many witty comments I don’t think I could ever list them all, but they all made me think about life. We definitely need to “Grow a Pair.”

There are so many more things we learned, and so much more I could write about how inspiring this conference was, but in the end my words will still not convey my true feelings of the conference. I can say, if anyone in the industry has an opportunity to be in Kansas City the first full week of May, I highly suggest making plans to attend the CMC. Many say the conference costs a lot, especially when you factor in the cost of the hotel, loss of revenue, etc. However, the investment in yourself and your business is invaluable. Bottom line, cost of the CMC: $1400, Hotel: $1000, Lost Revenue: $5000, but the CMC is truly PRICELESS!